The Secrets To Accomplishing Our Goals
I find that in life we tell others great ways to make their dreams come true ~ but we never do it for ourselves.
I've always dreamed big. Even though I began from very humble and trying beginnings as a child of a teenaged mom and single mother.
However, I NEVER heard my mom complain about taking care of us. Not one time. She worked 2 or 3 jobs at a time to do it.
Watching her, I realized, I could do anything I wanted ~ I just had to toss aside negative thoughts.
Daily Goal and To Do List
I make a goal list for the day. (1) Of things I need and want to accomplish (2) Of things my kids want to accomplish [I ask them]
All of those goals line up with our family goals in which my husband and I work on together throughout the year.
Teaching Kids to set Goals
I make it a point to help my kids to set goals. To teach them to navigate beyond their personal roadblocks to make their lives as fullfilling as they desire it to be.
Ways to Get Kids involved.
1) Have them help with the weekly lesson plan.
2) Have them name 3 things for the week they'd like to accomplish for themselves
3) Place their goal list and lesson plan where they can see and check off.
WEEKLY WRAP UP
We drove to DISNEYWORLD...on the Tue before Thanksgiving.
Thanksgiving Dinner ~ was at the Golden Corral restaurant. The food was great and the place was packed in Orlando, FL. We were able to bless our waitress with double our tip. I really wanted to considering the people next to us stiffed her on her tip. It was the best feeling in the world as she was ever grateful.
O_o and returned on Monday Morning at 3am ~ and YES I dragged myself to work by 7:45am.
And didn't spend 1 cent on Disney tickets. Cheap man's trip.
(1) Visit all the Resort Decorations
(2) Go to Celebration for Tree Lighting Ceremony and free activities
(3) Visit Campfire at Wilderness Resort with Chip N Dale - taking our own marshmallows, chocolate and graham crackers for the campfire songs
(4) Downtown Disney where free entertainment abounds. ~ Now, to drive home. To the cold ~ but happy.
Kids Dancing The Night Away at DownTown Disney
Making Our Own Gingerbread Houses at the Resort
Board Game Mania Late Night
Crafts at the resort
Disney Resort Christmas Decoration Self Tour
Work this week.
One of our LapTops bit the dust! Eeek! and it really set us back a bit. Thankfully, my oldest daughter, Rose, was able to take it to her college for a 'free' repair. But it was wasted. The laptop was dead. Luckily, Walmart had a sale and the kids and I put our funds together to purchase a replacement for $299.
Field Trip! BUST! We planned to go to the Imagination Station for a viewing of 101 Dalmations!
BUT, I overslept a bit, and the weather was so bad that we wouldn't have made it to the show in time.
So....we all went back to bed.
It was planned to be a special treat since we have our very own Dalmation.
The kids had a light day of work that day, but we still accomplished over half of our work which was great.
Speed Racer has been working very well independently but due to the lack of his own laptop, he had to do his computer work with me on my computer which made our nights longer.
Tiger Lilly is in the home stretch for her 1st of 3 block schedules for this school year. She'll be finalizing some of her courses. Now she is packed with subjects til our vacation in 3 weeks. After that she'll start her Winter College Course, a Landry course and a Currclick class for the Spring.
WORKING PARENT's LOG
Meals. Another bad week of planning since we didn't get home til early Monday morning and I had to run in to work with just 3.5 hrs sleep. However, I did get to the store that evening and got some meat with some quick marinades to make the week of cooking easier. The rest of the week we had a great homecook dinner that my Tiger Lilly prepared.
Cleaning. Didn't happen. The house is a mess. We plan to tidy up this weekend since my son Razor Ray will be painting my living room.
Work & Life Balance. This week was rather light. I only worked 9 hours on Monday and Tuesday was off work for our family field trip. And work was not very challenging since I had mostly yearly training to finish. I flexed my hours the remainder of the week which ended up pretty good.
Lesson Planning. I finished our lesson plans all the way through January 8th. We'll be taking off from schooling from Dec 22nd to Jan 3rd so that made it easy. Also I did a template for our 'light' January schedule and our Spring schedule.
Meals. Another bad week of planning since we didn't get home til early Monday morning and I had to run in to work with just 3.5 hrs sleep. However, I did get to the store that evening and got some meat with some quick marinades to make the week of cooking easier. The rest of the week we had a great homecook dinner that my Tiger Lilly prepared.
Cleaning. Didn't happen. The house is a mess. We plan to tidy up this weekend since my son Razor Ray will be painting my living room.
Work & Life Balance. This week was rather light. I only worked 9 hours on Monday and Tuesday was off work for our family field trip. And work was not very challenging since I had mostly yearly training to finish. I flexed my hours the remainder of the week which ended up pretty good.
Lesson Planning. I finished our lesson plans all the way through January 8th. We'll be taking off from schooling from Dec 22nd to Jan 3rd so that made it easy. Also I did a template for our 'light' January schedule and our Spring schedule.
Rest. Failed at this on Monday since returning from Disneyworld at 3 am and barely sleeping. Thankfully, Tuesday I was off work and able to sleep in a few extra hours. I stayed up late with my hubby watching movies on Wednesday (he suckered me into it.) Everything was back on track for me by Thursday and I was getting a comfortable 6-7 hour night sleep. Whoopi!
Weekend Plans. Date Night with hubby Friday! Kwanza celebration after my Tiger Lilly takes the SAT on Saturday, ending with taking my dog to the vet on Sunday.
Your Disney World trip sounds like fun!
ReplyDeleteWe were just there a few weeks ago and had a fabulous time at the Downtown Disney dance party.
Disney World sounds great! :)
ReplyDeleteDisney sounds great! The nearest to us is in a completely different country which we have to sail to get to, so I can't see us going any time soon.
ReplyDeleteHi Nita, we finished Core D+E last month and we loved Sunlight so much that here we are continuing on into Core F. ;)
ReplyDeleteHow fun Disney!!
ReplyDeleteThank you for visiting me :)
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ReplyDeleteI love your log! It's great when we keep things "real" on our blogs! It's such an encouragement to others. Thanks for stopping by!
ReplyDeleteThose 15 chapters were from a read aloud, so I was reading. ;) But, yes, that is a tad much for my 10 year old's independent reading too.
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